It’s been a while since I blogged because we finally closed! Yea! Kids love the new place and were a huge help in moving things in. We are now totally moved in and resolving all the little gremlins that come up with a move into a new home.
We’ve got a soccer tournament coming up for N on May 7. We’ve got the kids that weekend and confirmed that we’d be bringing N for that. Then the ex piped up that she would be coming with her new boyfriend. Finally we “know” about him. We’ve known for weeks that she had a boyfriend and that he had met the kids and the kids seem to like him. That’s great!
But of course it was a super secret until now. “Don’t tell Dad and J!!” Just another way for her to control them and what they do. She controls what they say in her house (can’t talk about Dad, definitely not me(!) and not about the new house. Unless of course she starts asking about it.) The control issues there are enormous.
Soooo different from our house. Talk about what you want to talk about. Tell your mom what you want to tell her. We don’t have any secrets that you can’t tell her. So why are we the bad guys all the time? I’m so tired of them coming over and having an attitude. It takes days to get through it and then they are gone and we have to start all over again a few days later. I wonder if they are the same way at their Mom’s house? Who knows…
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