As the stepmom (and not even that since we are not yet married) do I get props for Mother’s Day? My theory is this year, no because I am not their stepmom yet. Next year, yes. Regardless R is planning on celebrating Mom’s Day for me on Sunday. This should be very interesting. His ex is going away for the weekend with her new BF and doesn’t want them for Mom’s Day weekend. Odd in my book, but whatever. It’s her day and she should be able to spend it as she chooses, with or without her kids.
Regardless we will be seeing her that weekend, because as “luck” would have it the same town the ex and her BF are going to is the same town that there is a soccer tourney in. So she’ll be coming for that. Yippee. :p
I am curious about how she will react when the kids tell her that they celebrated Mom’s day for me? I think she’ll be livid. R would be livid if they spend Dad’s day with her BF and celebrated for him. Then again, he’s already said that that will NEVER happen. But if she doesn’t want them, then what are we supposed to do? Be jerks and say “Parenting plan says your weekend. Guess you’re going to have to cancel your plans. Sorry b!tch!” Of course not. We’ll be nice and take them. Her holiday her choice on how she wants to celebrate.
My guess is that she’ll definitely have them next year because she will never let this happen again. So I will enjoy it. And next year I am sure I will miss it. But that’s ok…I’ll have had one. J
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